Thinking of You

Thinking Of You - Katy Perry

This song just seems so appropriate for this book that I have found myself so engrossed in - PS I love you

Yes, some have said - WHY read such a book when u have only been married for less than 3 months...

But I have a theory, I think because we are only human, we often take things for granted... Things/people that we somehow feel that will ALWAYS be ours to have and to hold...

This book reminded me how fleeting our lives are... and if I don't appreciate what is right in front of me now - it maybe taken away from me before I know it...

and then those simple things like...

* having that someone to kiss goodbye to every morning...

* having to fight over who turns off the light at night...

* someone that brings me coffee in the morning...

* someone to wait for to have dinner with...

* that someone that will always let me tag along in parties cuz he knows how awkward I feel at those functions...

* someone who waits with me while I get my health check done...

* someone who drives me to places...

* and go grocery shopping with...

* that someone who knows exactly what to say when I'm being difficult...

I don't ever want to be one of those old married couples who takes everything for granted... the ones who stay together just because of the children - or because of religion or culture...

The ones who are so bored of each other... or the ones who have no passion or laughter left in their relationship...

I want to be a woman with a million happy memories... 

one with no regrets when death do us part...

one who is ready to experience more life, more love and make even more new memories...

one who appreciates what is right in front of her...

and is not complacent...